After another unsuccessful date on Friday, my bestie came over. I shared my realization with her...
I date guys that are unavailable (physically - i.e. location or emotionally) or I date guys that I am not really interested in.
Why??? you might ask.
Well... because I don't want to get hurt. (no new news there)
So, in turn, I date guys that:
1) don't live near by (because how could we have a successful relationship long distance... TRUST me! I speak from experience on this one.)
2) aren't emotionally ready to have a committed relationship (because then I get flirted with but don't have to worry about anything more)
3) I'm not really interested in (because when I want to move on, I have "valid" reasons to do so)
"Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be." ~Charles Jones
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