Saturday, July 17, 2010

This is what I think about THAT!!!

So... my ex husband friend requested me on FB.
Yeah... that's NOT happening!!!!

It's bad enough that he follows my blog... and thinks he has a say so in what I do or say.
I mean we are divorced for a reason.

Sure... I think it is great that we are civil towards each other.
That's what is best for our boys.

But I don't care to share my latest and greatest with him.

He threatened to post as his FB status that I was dating one of his student's father and the ex-wife's son plays on our boys' ball team.

Sure... that's true . I'm not ashamed of it.
There's nothing to be ashamed of.

He's not married.
Big whoop that R. has his daughter in class!
Big whoop that a kid that plays on the boys' ball team has a momma who has an ex!
Big whoop that I have decided to date that momma's ex!

I am slowly learning that I have been with men that liked to control me, but I'm done.
Done being told what to do.
Done being told how & when to do things.
I'm living my life for me and for my boys
...and all those that feel otherwise can just kiss my a**!!!!!

5 comments:

  1. Woot Woot. Standing ovation for you sister!!!!!!

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  2. Good for you! I'm assuming that your ex read this very post? Hee hee. Thanks so much for visiting my blogoir last week on my SITS day!

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  3. My ex-husband sent me a friend request too ... why????

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  4. Yeah what is up with exes wanting to keep tabs on us? I don't get why people FRIEND request when they are so not a FRIEND. Ughhh.

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  5. You wrote this is such a nice way. I'm not sure I would have been so kind with my words. Especially since you know he's reading this. Hey, it's a small world, dude. Get over it. Move on. SHE has... (See? And that was my censored version. You are much better with words.)

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