Let me just tell you... ignoring is not what I want to be doing right now.
Walking up to W. and shaking her and saying, "My child has finally gotten over the hurt you have put in his life! Why must you come back for more??!!"
You see... 2 and a half years ago, R and his girlfriend at the time, W. broke up because she cheated on R.
Colby had grown very attached to her. Because we, as parents, didn't tell him why they were done (that is NOT a conversation you have with your 7 year old), it was hard for him to move forward.
He cried and had nightmares. My heart broke because there was nothing I could do to heal that pain.
Time does a wonderful job of healing it though... along with R. finding a wonderful woman who sees eye to eye with me.
And I thought we were done with that hurt... but W. started coming to the boys' ball games last week and she came again tonight. She has moved next door to one of the boy's families that is on Colby's ball team. Her reason for coming?? To supposedly support her neighbor. But what she is really doing is dragging my son back through past hurt.
We arrived home tonight and I got the boys ready for bed as usual. It's normal for Colby to talk in his sleep. Many a nights I stand at his door and listen to the "conversations" he has with his friends or with Sam. But tonight, it fell into a time that I thought we had moved past. Night terrors.
He thankfully woke up fairly quickly and I took him into my room with me. But I know it has to do with her. I know that he still can't process that pain.
I just wish she could see it and understand.
I just wish she that move on and stay out of the vicinity of my children... because if she really did care for them, I would hope that she would think of them instead of "supporting the neighbors".
I wish I could shake her and tell her to "Please just stop!!"
But instead... I will just ignore her and hope my son doesn't see her.
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